How to Create Calm

Bringing a new life into the world? Honestly, it’s magical—and overwhelming at the same time. Every mom-to-be wants the best for her little one, but sometimes, without even realizing it, we might be setting up patterns that can make things harder for our babies once they arrive. The good news? Small tweaks can make a big difference. Let’s talk about some common habits that can unintentionally add stress—and what we can do instead to nurture calm.

Inconsistent Routines

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“I’ll rest and eat whenever I can fit it in.”

Sound familiar? Between work, errands, and prepping for a baby, it’s easy to put ourselves last. But when our routines are all over the place, it can throw off our body’s natural rhythms—and believe it or not, babies pick up on that even in the womb.

Their impact: Irregular schedules can disrupt the baby’s sense of rhythm, potentially leading to fussiness after birth. Turns out, a little consistency now can go a long way in setting a peaceful tone for your baby later.

✨ Prioritize Rest:
“Take breaks during the day to relax your body and mind.”

Not Bonding Before Birth

“I’ll start connecting with my baby once they’re here.”

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It’s totally normal to feel like bonding will start when you finally hold your little one. But research shows that babies actually start recognizing voices and emotional tones before they’re born. Those quiet chats, little songs, and even gentle belly rubs? They’re already building that sense of connection.

Their impact: Babies recognize voices and emotional tones in utero; bonding early fosters a sense of safety. Basically, they’re already learning the sound of love.

✨ Speak or Sing to Your Baby:
“Your voice is their first source of comfort.”

Overloading on Noise and Stimulation

“I’ll keep the TV or music on all day for background noise.”

We all like a bit of background noise, but too much can overwhelm sensitive little ears—yes, even in the womb! Constant loud noise during pregnancy may make it harder for babies to relax or focus once they’re born.

Their impact: Babies exposed to constant stimulation might struggle more with settling down, resting, or filtering out distractions later on.

✨ Limit Overstimulation:
“Opt for quiet moments to balance active ones.

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Skipping Downtime

“I’m too busy to rest right now.”

Ah, the never-ending to-do list. It’s so tempting to power through, but your body (and baby) need those pauses. Babies benefit from calm, restful moments even before they enter the world—they start learning regulation by syncing with your rhythms.

Their impact: Babies in the womb benefit from calm periods—they learn to regulate based on your rhythm. Every nap or quiet moment you take is a gentle message to your baby: “It’s safe to rest.”

✨ Practice Mindful Breathing:
“Calm your nervous system to help your baby feel secure.”

Constant Multitasking During Pregnancy

“I need to get everything done before the baby comes!”

Oh mama, the nesting instincts are real. But all that multitasking and stress? It raises cortisol levels (that pesky stress hormone), and those hormones can actually cross the placenta. Not ideal, right?

Their impact: Your stress hormones can make the baby more prone to stress and reactivity. Slowing down a little now can help your baby enter the world with a stronger foundation for calm.

✨ Establish Simple Routines:
“Consistent mealtimes, rest, and quiet periods create a soothing rhythm for your baby.”